'M'odern doesn't mean 'M'ean 'M'aterialist
When I start writing this, i really can't think of a title suitable for the topic I am going to write about. Its a composite of believes, myths, ironies and wits. Sometimes you will just laugh at it and sometimes you will sit back and wonder whats happening.
Once Late Dr. Abdul Kalam said - "I felt making rockets was a lot much easier than relationship". It obviously was an answer to 'why did you not marry?'. But somewhere deep down we all feel, he had a point. Nothing is more complex than understanding the abstract wiring between humans that helps in the flow of the emotions from one end to other. These emotions are in variety, not just sweet.
They say women are complex. May be they are but that doesn't nullify the complexities in men. After all they both are the combination of similar chromosomes. I never knew why they said ' Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' till the the time I grew up to realize these hilarious differences. Its actually how incredible that I didn't notice these differences even they being so polar opposite and incredibly obvious.
I understand men are more rational, more practical, and obviously more calculative wherein we women are more emotional, more impulsive and trust me not at all calculative. We might not spend much on brands every now and then but we might end up paying mint for a dress that makes us look slimmer ;). Yes we sometimes are a little complicated to understand but now times have changed. Women have started being vocal just like men. Vocal about their needs, desires and necessities. A modern women is a clear mixture of Sugar in the water. Sugar being the conventional women of the society and water being the men. They are adapting the changes being independent, rational, logical, and yes a dreamer. This mixture is clear as it looks but its taste still stands out when mixed with any other flavor of society.
Modern Women is willing to pay her own bills, take professional decisions, travel across the world to explore more, have intellectual conversations and also raise her kids with intelligence. She is glowing. She is growing. But how unfortunate is that, men are not able to understand and foremost adapt to these changes in her. She has been the way he wanted her to be all this while but now she demands being loved for what all she has become. She has really worked hard to be respected and taken seriously in so many years of life. This is evolution and history says evolution have been the mother of live on this planet.
But above all this women is the same with her man. As Diana Kirschner says in 'Love in 90 Days' - ' No matter how powerful and independent they are, women still want to be pursued, protected and cared for by their partners.' Is it that complicated to be understood by men in our society. Here is where I talk about their complexities. As a partner they want to see you being confident, to stand out in crowd, to be deliciously beautiful in your style and grace. But then why is it that difficult to accept the fact that, it all comes with some sets of social modernization. As soon as he realizes the same, he pushes her back to shells. Does she deserves all this?
Today he needs to be worthy of having her. Her body calls for his love, pure love, with no agony, no chauvinism, and absolutely no authoritativeness. She is delicate hold her firmly, or else she may break. She is like the that sand in the Sand Glass, steady, smooth, flowing & fawn. Once you let her go of your hand she doesn't know any coming back.
She is not that complicated as it seems, just try and understand her and more than that accept her. She needs to be supported not judged, needs to be loved not cursed. :)
Once Late Dr. Abdul Kalam said - "I felt making rockets was a lot much easier than relationship". It obviously was an answer to 'why did you not marry?'. But somewhere deep down we all feel, he had a point. Nothing is more complex than understanding the abstract wiring between humans that helps in the flow of the emotions from one end to other. These emotions are in variety, not just sweet.
They say women are complex. May be they are but that doesn't nullify the complexities in men. After all they both are the combination of similar chromosomes. I never knew why they said ' Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' till the the time I grew up to realize these hilarious differences. Its actually how incredible that I didn't notice these differences even they being so polar opposite and incredibly obvious.
I understand men are more rational, more practical, and obviously more calculative wherein we women are more emotional, more impulsive and trust me not at all calculative. We might not spend much on brands every now and then but we might end up paying mint for a dress that makes us look slimmer ;). Yes we sometimes are a little complicated to understand but now times have changed. Women have started being vocal just like men. Vocal about their needs, desires and necessities. A modern women is a clear mixture of Sugar in the water. Sugar being the conventional women of the society and water being the men. They are adapting the changes being independent, rational, logical, and yes a dreamer. This mixture is clear as it looks but its taste still stands out when mixed with any other flavor of society.
Modern Women is willing to pay her own bills, take professional decisions, travel across the world to explore more, have intellectual conversations and also raise her kids with intelligence. She is glowing. She is growing. But how unfortunate is that, men are not able to understand and foremost adapt to these changes in her. She has been the way he wanted her to be all this while but now she demands being loved for what all she has become. She has really worked hard to be respected and taken seriously in so many years of life. This is evolution and history says evolution have been the mother of live on this planet.
But above all this women is the same with her man. As Diana Kirschner says in 'Love in 90 Days' - ' No matter how powerful and independent they are, women still want to be pursued, protected and cared for by their partners.' Is it that complicated to be understood by men in our society. Here is where I talk about their complexities. As a partner they want to see you being confident, to stand out in crowd, to be deliciously beautiful in your style and grace. But then why is it that difficult to accept the fact that, it all comes with some sets of social modernization. As soon as he realizes the same, he pushes her back to shells. Does she deserves all this?
Today he needs to be worthy of having her. Her body calls for his love, pure love, with no agony, no chauvinism, and absolutely no authoritativeness. She is delicate hold her firmly, or else she may break. She is like the that sand in the Sand Glass, steady, smooth, flowing & fawn. Once you let her go of your hand she doesn't know any coming back.
She is not that complicated as it seems, just try and understand her and more than that accept her. She needs to be supported not judged, needs to be loved not cursed. :)
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